This final post is being written by Jordan, and as I sit here trying to gather my thoughts, I still struggle to find the words to express my emotions at this time.
Irmgard Maria Mueller passed away peacefully on March 23rd 2024. The targeted therapy treatments were unsuccessful at controlling the tumors, and shortly after discontinuing the treatment, her liver function was compromised to the point of being clear that survival was not likely. Four weeks ago her liver began to lose function and she consistently deteriorated until she entered palliative care for the last 10 days of her life. She was at peace and comfortable when she passed, with family by her side.
There is nothing good that can be said about cancer, even the silver lining lessons learned are always accompanied by pain, suffering and sometimes loss; the randomness of the disease at times only increases the feelings of helplessness, frustration and despair. Mom kept a very positive outlook on things through out her entire battle, one of her many admirable qualities that was apparent to everyone that knew her, and her toughness and determination in fighting this disease was nothing short of inspirational. I'm grateful for all of the healthcare professionals who helped mom over the last few years, the excellent palliative care at Pasqua hospital, and especially dad who was by her side for every appointment and treatment.
Thank you for reading this blog, every visit, post read and comment left was very important to my mom. This blog was one of the many countless creative endeavours of her life, but it might have been the most important to her overall. I hope the memory of the type of person she was lives on in every person who knew her, and the lessons about being aware of what is in the food you eat and being an advocate for your own healthcare, stay with everyone who reads this blog.
Jordan, it is nice to read your blog entry. Your Mom would be impressed- we are. Thanks for doing this. Yes Irm is and will be missed very much.
ReplyDeleteWell done Jordan. Your mom would be so proud. We had many good laughs together and I will miss her dearly. The one thing I won’t forget laughing so hard about was when the commercial came on about Freedom 55 insurance. Your mom said “is that a new kind of condom?”
ReplyDeleteTake care of each other. God bless you all❤️
What a beautiful tribute to your mother, Jordan! Your mom certainly was tough and determined. At the same time, she inspired many by creating this blog to share her journey through the illness and her life. Your mom had a life-long love of learning; always curious and questioning. I recall several conversations with Irm that lasted hours and always sparked new inquiries. There was always a sense of playfulness in her inquisitiveness that was inspiring and hence, made the retelling of her adventures so amusing. I had many a chuckle after reading the entries in this blog. Beyond all else, your mom's love for you, Gavin and your dad was foremost. In all our conversations, she always spoke with such deep love about you three.
ReplyDeleteI sure will miss my dear sister-in-law. She had a real positive impact on how I think about living and all the lessons that can be learned from truly embracing every day.
Ross, Alana and I (Auntie Sharon) send lots of love to you, Gavin and your dad. xoxo
Spijtig te moeten vernemen dat je mama het niet gehaald heeft. Ik heb nog enkele keren met haar gemaild vorig jaar, daar mijn broer ook kanker heeft. Hij is tot hier toe genezen van prostaat kanker. Mijn vader en moeder leven nog steeds. Ze zijn ondertussen 93 en 86 jaar geworden. Sterkte nog en de groeten aan alle familieleden vanwege mij en mijn echtgenote Elly, en al mijn broers en zus. Anthonissen - Ulrichts.
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